When your Heart is bleeding:
- Start looking forward to something better in the future.
- Loose the memories. Don’t imagine the past over and over in your head. That’s the easiest way to fade the memories out.
- Keep yourself busy. As busy as possible.
- Try invading another world all together. May be another planet. Just get out of the space and the place.
- It’s OK to just baselessly fantasize, Day-Dream grand future plans, as long as you know it’s merely for the pleasure of the imagination.
- Never blame yourself, or the other person too for the matter of fact. As the saying goes...You can’t clap with one hand, etc, etc, you should have rather bitch-slapped when u had the opportunity.
- Don’t get vulnerable. Don’t push your limits as desperate measures.
- It’s OK not to be Alright. Its OK to weep cry be sad when u want to. Just try and be around a friend at the time of crisis.
- You aren’t the only one. Millions have done it before. You will get over it too. And sooner then u think.
- Never carry the baggage of you past into the Future. Every relation is different Treat it differently.
- Trying and being friends DON’T work out. Stay far away, really far away… Till you haven’t forgotten the face. You will discover a stranger...Very different form the one you loved.
- Sometimes, in our imagination, we find a person more intense, than they are in flesh and blood.
- When your heart is bleeding, use it to the fullest potential. Indulge yourself in your passion you have ignored for long.
- Free yourself of the memories of the past, in order to give room for new experiences.
- Lonely is just a state of mind. You can choose to be a happy Loner. Solitude is a art that demands patience.
- Alone is freedom only if you recognize it.
- Tuck the pillow, if you hate sleeping alone. Or you could cuddle up with your pet.
- Rejuvenate, pamper yourself. Be the Narcissist you have secretly wished to be. You cant ever love another if you haven’t loved yourself.
- Just remember, you have to kiss a lot of frogs before finding your perceived-to-be Prince Charming.
- For some, moving on is the ‘Happy Ending’
5 comments:
Nice tips for someone to rehabilitate from the break-up :o)
I wish it shall not come handy to anyone - not for that fact that the tips are false & bad; but for the fact that break-up is always hard & sad!
I hope not too. But its also not a wise thing to be stuck to a Bad Romance, for the fear of being left alone.
All i tried putting across is that, there are joys of being alone, even when the heart is bleeding.
More Posts coming..Happy Reading!! :)
seriously..... nice.....
u bounced back :):).. u can have ur own show on TV.... like Dr phil :):):)
: hahhaahha.. As long as i find a producer and an audience. I'm open to the thought. :D
atleast not show then you can have your own column .... if not a love doctor then at least a nurse... lol.. jokes apart... loved the article and gurl if you do mean it.... hats off to you for such an effort...
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